Living with people : - 2. The most difficult thing to do is to live in peace and harmony with people. It is, perhaps, easier to live with birds and animals. Why is living with people a problem? Youth today, is misguided, by external evil forces, such as different wings of dirty political parties and politicians - Congress, communists, all family owned regional parties, foolish media, and other evils, such as Christians and Muslims, fundamentalist / arrogant / separatist - Huriyat of Kashmir + foolish stone pelting youth, /showing dis-respect to the Nation .... .. "READ CAREFULLY, WHAT SWAMI TEJOMAYANANDA SAYS" :

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19/03/2018
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All Members,
         Respected family members of this great holy Nation.

VERY IMPORTANT FOR THE PRESENT DAY PARENTS : - to direct their children - Follow Sincerely :

Living with people : - 2. Swami Tejomayananda

The most difficult thing to do is to live in peace and harmony with people. It is, perhaps, easier to live with birds and animals. Why is living with people a problem?

 
It is important to understand the message clearly and completely. The message is that one should accept the fact as it is. Then if a change is necessary, try to make that change, but do not insist on it. Every parent wants the child to perform well and excel whether in sports or in studies. There is nothing wrong with that. But, to expect something that may not be possible for the child to do, and unnecessarily apply pressure and force, will cause frustration to all.

When one is living with people it may not be possible to have no expectations at all, so one should have reasonable expectations. An artistically inclined child with no aptitude for commerce should not be forced into the family business. Expectations should be reasonable and based on knowledge and wisdom.

As far as nature or the moon is concerned, we do not feel a sense of ownership or possessiveness. But with regard to people this feeling is deep seated and can be very destructive What we need to have is love and affection. Along with that there should be freedom and space, too. Two hands joined together leave a gap and can be easily separated. Similarly, we should give space to people. Often we hear people say, “Give me some space please!” If you love a bird, will you cage it and expect it to be happy? It is not possible to love someone and also confine them in that love.

The End.

NOTE :

1. Personality traits are distinguishing qualities or characteristics that are the embodiment of an individual’s.  They are your habitual patterns of behavior, temperament and emotion.

2. Skills, on the other hand, are the learned capacity to carry out specific tasks.  They are competences or the talents to do things.  These proficiencies can include critical thinking, manual, negotiation, outdoor, presentation, or technological.  Typically, skills are special abilities that are acquired through training and experience.

3. The building block of successful career development is comprised of four components: skills, values, interests and personality traits.

4.   Successful people tend to be/have : -

    Attitude – The capacity to stay optimistic and positive.  The #1 quality for career success is “Championship Thinking.”
    Enthusiastic – The possession of intense and eager interest in a subject or cause.  It is an energy that often inspires others.
    Ethical – The quality of having and living by a code of sound moral principles.
    Goal Focused – The ability to have clarity on the objectives that you strive for in your personal and professional life.
    Listener – The capacity to suspend your own agenda and deliberately and empathically allow others to be heard.
    Networked – A well developed circle of influence of interconnected positive relationships.
    Persistent – The ability to endure in the face of adversity.  It is a patient and relenting effort to achieve despite difficulties.
    Self-Aware – The understanding and knowledge of who you are including your skills, values, interests, behaviors and character.
    Self-Confident – The firm belief in your abilities.  Seek professional help if this is an area of weakness – it will be worth it.
    Self-Discipline – The ability to control and restrain impulses.  Energy then can be focused and channeled toward your ambitions.

5.  Adaptive,     Analytical Mind,     Articulate,     Balanced,     Collaborative,     Committed,     Courageous,     Creative,     Decisive,     Detail-Oriented,     Emotionally Competent,
    Friendly,     Hard Working,     Humorous,     Intelligent,     Organized,     Prepared,     Productive,     Relationship-Oriented,     Responsible,     Sincere,     Self-Sacrificing,         Trustworthy,     Visionary,     Wise,    Honest,   Truthful,    Straight forward,   Righteousness,   Well disciplined ...etc...many more ...

MOST IMPORTANT : SANATANA DHARMAM & VASUDEVA KUTUMBHAKAM [ FOLLOW DHARMAM BECAUSE IT IS ETERNAL AND REALISE WORLD IS ONE FAMILY { WHICH INCLUDES NATURE [ ALL LIVING AND NON-LIVING THINGS }]; HENCE IT IS NOT DIFFICULT BUT VERY VERY EASY  TO LIVE TOGETHER IN PEACE AND HORMONY.

TOPIC ENDS HERE, FURTHER WITH ANOTHER VALUE

Thank you for reading
           JAIHIND.
VANDE MATHARAM.